Jack's Story

It is not the length of life, but the depth of life.
~Ralph Waldo Emmerson

Matt and Bethany Gillham established The Jack Ryan Gillham Foundation in memory of their son,
Jack
.  Jack came into this world on July 6, 2007.  It was known before his birth that he would face
significant challenges.  It was unknown just how great
those challenges would be.  In utero Jack was
diagnosed with a birth defect called
Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia.  The odds of survival for CDH are
60/40.  Despite the grim diagnosis Matt and Bethany continued to be hopeful.   

Immediately after his arrival Jack was taken to
Arkansas Children’s Hospital, where he would spend his
entire short life.  When he was a few hours old he was placed on
ECMO, lessening his chances of
survival.  However, after nine days and one surgery Jack came off of
ECMO and began to improve.  He
faced one obstacle after another, but he continued to overcome them.   

When he was three and a half weeks old Jack had to be placed on dialysis due to dangerous levels of
potassium in his system.  His kidneys had ultimately failed and were unable to rid his tiny body of
toxins.  He would never come off of dialysis and it was determined after 5 weeks and 6 days that Jack
had severe brain damage.  He would never walk or talk or know his family.  What a heart break this was
and continues to be for the family of Jack.

He put up a valiant fight.  Always keeping such a sweet spirit about himself, despite what he endured
over those six weeks.  His parents chose to remove life support and on the day that he was six weeks old
his fight ended.   Matt and Bethany had decided that even if Jack came home they were going to help
families in similar situations.  The fact that Jack did not survive only fueled that fire.  They wanted to
make sure that Jack’s life had a greater purpose and that his memory will live on.  The Jack Ryan
Gillham Foundation works to make sure that others will benefit from his life.  He is our hero!

In the words of one of our dear friends, “He’s going to leave more of a mark on this world than half the
people who live to be a hundred.”  
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